Motherhood

Motherhood

Motherhood is seen as such a natural part of life. I mean, what could be more natural than observing and caring for your progeny – little pieces of you; so precious and cute. So, why don't I see it that way?

Motherhood does not come naturally to me. I don't even like the subject. It makes me feel guilty when I see mothers who seem to live for their children. Sometimes I wonder, What's wrong with me? Do I need more time to myself than the average mother, or are we all in the same boat? How can I shift my focus effectively without neglecting my responsibilities or burning myself out?

It is these questions that have led me to investigate the experiences of my peers and their opinions of motherhood. I want to know how much satisfaction individuals feel, what brings them said satisfaction, how they cope with boredom in their role as mother (if they experience it to the extent that I do), how they keep motivated to perform the tasks of life day after day, etc.

Since escaping my own motherhood is not an option, I recognize some interaction with other mothers combined with the mental stimulation of analyzing the data I collect will not only help me gain perspective but it will fill a need I have to be engaged on a level beyond that which can be reached by perpetually cleaning up messes that others have made and listening to whiny voices.

Do I think such a project hasn't been done before? No. I know that it has. But, somehow, reading about strangers and their struggles just isn't as satisfying as connecting with those I actually know or that I've at least met. Maybe you agree. Perhaps I'll entertain or encourage others in the process. Even better.

Let the research begin! Please contact me so I can send you my questionnaire. Thank you!